Hey, I don't blame you. The site admins piss me off to no end (they banned me from their RPG forum because I suggested something the admins change about their rules. How dare I suggest there was something wrong with their site?!). As for the Harry/Hermione bashers...don't let them bother you. I'm a R/Hr H/G person myself, but I learned a long time ago that you can't let what other people say about it bother you too much. 75% of the internet is made up of idiots, anyway.