Heh, I'm the total opposite. There are moments in the books, like when Ron sticks up for Hermione to Umbridge... I think (it's been years and majority of the time Fanon>canon in my brain). Then I can go 'ah, I see this' and I would be fine with it if R/Hr was developed more fully with care and natural progression but JKR went all stabby with the integrity and time jumped nearly twenty years TWENTY! Shit happens in the course of time, you know. People change and who you love at seventeen is more often than not the person you love at twenty/thirty/fourty. So if R/Hr was supposed to be end game then there needed to be more substance for me to grab on to. I often go for the friendship into love into omgsoulmateforliiiiiiiife tropes.

Because Ron would spend most of his time on the couch. No. Seriously. I marvel at the fact that they have kids. Also, irresponsible stuff like that, makes me not like Ron more. I feel so bad because while I love Ron and his friendships with people I absolutely loathe him at times. *facepalm* It's like I want to like him more but I can't because JKR makes him do STUPID THINGS AND I CANNOT LOVE STUPID PEOPLE WHO DO STUPID THINGS. She is impossible.

I know what you mean! There are too many feelings attached to all sides of this thing. It's hard to navigate anything definitive. Just... FEELINGS. I have them.